There is a particular quote that says “Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to experience” I so much love quoting the quote-don’t just know why, however, the saddening thing about the quote was that I loved quoting it but I had no deep understanding of it. Each time I think of it, what comes to my mind is the phrase “Don’t Think beyond Borders”. Recently, I came to understand the meaning of the quote, that indeed life is a reality, and anything that accompanies life is a reality to experience.
Nothing happens in life without someone directly or indirectly experiencing it. The most excruciating aspect of this reality is that people lost themselves to the thought of the things that don't exist within life and its reality”. People do think beyond the things that exist within the life, to think of the things without existence or a standing proof or evidence…And I call this “A Fallacy”.
Painfully, a decisive thought that comes to the mind of many is that an event happens prior to another event, and this only occurs circumstantially and even rarely. I’ve met and seen different people finding and giving meaning to a thing that doesn’t have a cogent meaning, I've also seen on the other hand people defining a meaning to things that have clear evidence that it occurs naturally, in order to suit their thought or purpose. From what usually comes to my mind each time I think about the reality of life, I could undoubtedly say: nothing worth thinking beyond the border of reality…indeed, “don’t think beyond borders”… Allow life to flow freely the way it could, let it flow the way it flows, and do well to enjoy every moment it brings.
Without an attempt of holding the air, I'd like to affirm this that "some things happen based on uncertainty, in fact, most things happen coincidentally”…Don’t base your thought too much on things that happen coincidentally, instead, base your thought on things that has value and on things that infers reality…Don’t be a philosopher that bases his/her doctrine on things without meaning, instead, be a scholar that studies the “living word” to know more about nature and the reality of life and also have an understanding of the things to come-don't just study to know the reality only, study to know the essence, and the power behind the reality of Life which is “God" It’d be of value to know that God is the life, we live and God lives in reality….
It’d be of value to know that God does not fight for you to hurt another person, He loves everybody, and He'd not harm the person He loves aimlessly or carelessly….So, note, most times, God isn't the one fighting for you when that your considered enemy dies, don’t think life takes revenge when that your Ex end up being divorced…Hum, Don’t think like that-Everything happens for a purpose, instead of thinking like this, consider some scenarios where your counterparts end up well. Don’t let your thought be like the unlearned that think like these…” Had it been he had sold his soul, his daughter wouldn’t have died, before saying this, consider this question “what if he sells his soul and her daughter dies?” Isn’t this coincidental, life flows the way it feels, not everything happens at the expense of another event, only a few things happen like that…and they happen not without the creator’s consent….Don't think life would request your misfortune on another person that knows nothing about your palave-Be Yourself and Move on.
At this point, I think sharing some of the common events people encounter which lead them to think beyond what life doesn't implement would shed more light on what we’ve been discussing since…I know we always see some people that give testimony on how they were rejected by their so-called ex-lover whose life became worthless, smiles…
I've seen many speakers saying "Her life ended miserably because she rejected my proposal. I've even seen some that say "Had it been she didn't say no, we would be here together today living in luxuries" hum, there is one particular question that comes to my mind each time I hear this, and that question is…what if she marries you and you both end up purposelessly? However, what we ought to do instead of sharing a testimony like this is thanking God, and believing everything happens according to His Plans…If she leaves, fine, that means you guys are not meant to be together. Move On. Don’t think beyond borders, everything happens on purpose, even the events that occur coincidentally to we humans.
I’ve also met a lot of people that think their so-called haters would suffer in life and come back to seek help from them because they were once rejected or disappointed…see, we don't need this, we don't need to think beyond borders, some things would never happen, nobody would regret because of your dislike…nobody…Just BE YOURSELF.
Life is a reality to experience, experience that and only that…Truly, what goes around comes around as we do say, but some things would never come around, In fact, some things would go, and never look back not to talk of coming around-DON'T THINK BEYOND BORDERS…Life is a reality, not a movie, nothing about it is fictitious, nothing about it is purposeless, nothing about it is without meaning and value. Nothing within the life is meaningless or purposeless, nature, the humans, the animals, even the tiny flies are a reality and have meanings and purpose…Don’t maneuver your thought beyond what was created, instead, learn and know more about your creator to live life and enjoy every offer it brings… live life well and purposefully and enjoy everything it offers. It’s a reality, not a movie.